Showing posts with label Arita Trahan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Arita Trahan. Show all posts

Friday, December 9, 2011

My Year of Treading Lightly

This morning, as we lay in bed, Steve reminded me of this old chinese story: 
Chinese Word for Luck!
Good Luck Bad Luck!
There was a farmer who used an old horse to till his fields. One day, the horse escaped into the hills and when the farmer's neighbors sympathized with the old man over his bad luck, the farmer replied, "Was it bad luck?  Maybe."  
A week later, the horse returned with a herd of wild horses from the hills and this time the neighbors congratulated the farmer on his good luck.  The farmer's reply was, "Good luck? Maybe."  
Then, when the farmer's son was attempting to tame one of the wild horses, he fell off the horse and broke his leg. Everyone thought this was very bad luck. The farmers only reaction was, "Bad luck? Maybe."
Some weeks later, the army marched into the village and drafted every able-bodied youth they found there. When the army saw the farmer's son with his broken leg, they let him off. "Good luck?  Maybe."  
It's been one helluva year.  Breaking my right femur on March 6th was certainly some damn bad luck.  It's shaped my entire year, and been a real challenge emotionally and physically.  But there's been some good luck mixed in.  Like the unexpected surprise when Vanderbilt Hospital waived a large portion of my bill last month, after I fretted over it for several.  And although I lost some home buyer-clients in the months while laid up with my broken leg, I just sold a beautiful home that Arita, one of my best friends, gave me the privilege to list, and I'll have some Christmas money.  

I was looking forward to celebrating the home sale yesterday (Thursday) by taking the day off to just lay around and relax.  But then again, did I really deserve it?  After all,  Steve and I just got back Sunday from a nine day trip to Hilton Head, Savannah, and Charleston, where I worked (a little) with Steve critiquing the songs of country songwriters in Georgia.  Some more great luck:  Steve's cousin donated a week's stay in a beautiful condo  and we earned money while we were there!

So, Wednesday evening, while leaving a songwriting workshop, I stepped off the porch of the host's house, landed on an uneven place, and fell all the way to the sidewalk, twisting my ankle and scraping and bending my right knee in half.  The four other songwriters I was leaving with scrambled to pick me up, carried me back inside where I sat awhile with ice on my knee and ankle.  As planned, I spent the whole day Thursday laying around and relaxing.  Today, as bruises and pain have settled in and I can barely walk (again!), I'm relaxing some more!  

I'm just wondering:  Did I really have to fall and re-injure my leg to justify laying around and relaxing?

Bad luck?  Maybe.


Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Follow The Fun!

June 1, 2011.  Happy New Year!!  (For me anyway....)  Today officially begins my New Year 2011.  I figure I've got seven good months to make up for lost time.  

I had so many plans for the New Year last January.  I had a to-do list of aspirations that included getting my health in optimal condition, (and lining up health insurance), getting our home de-cluttered, and somehow balancing my creative life with my "job" of selling real estate.  I was having trouble getting motivated though, and finally, in late February, I decided that my new year would officially begin on March 1, 2011.  I was doing quite well for five days, until March 6th,  when I fell and broke my femur!
  
Life is just what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.  (John Lennon)

Now, 12 1/2 weeks later, I'm walking again (still with the help of a cane).  I've been out of sync and out of commission--literally, since my employment is commission based--for quite some time.  As my friend, Vickie said, "I've been incubating."  Well, the hell with "incubating," I need to start hatching!!   I never did get that health insurance lined up, and I've got hospital bills to pay!


Thank God I was able to call another friend for emotional support.  A conversation with my good friend, Arita Trahan, was the perfect medicine to quell my squirrel mind.  She told me that I don't need to get "motivated", I just need to be inspired.  She said, "if you feel inspired, do it!  If you don't feel inspired, don't do it!"  She told me to "follow the fun", to think about what I really enjoy about selling real estate and do that.   She said if I just "follow the fun", all my good will come to me, people will want to work with me, and the money will follow.  OMG, I love this!

After listening to Arita, I decided my New Year 2011 will officially begin on June 1st.  And my New Year's Aspirations are as follows:

Follow the Fun
Do What Inspires Me
Follow the Fun
Do What Inspires Me
Follow the Fun

Happy New Year!